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Toxic Relationship Quiz:
Love or a Red Flag Circus?

Wondering, “Is my relationship toxic?” Not sure if it’s sweet or straight-up sour?
Take this quiz to find out if it’s love, a red flag parade, or a toxic dumpster fire! 🚩🔥

1. Does your partner rip into you with cutting remarks like a bad sermon, leaving you feeling less than blessed?



2. Is your partner acting like a strict Sunday school teacher, trying to control every move you make?



3. Does your partner treat you like a suspect in a divine drama—always accusing you without trust?



4. Are you and your partner locked in endless squabbles that feel more like a never-ending debate than true love?



5. Does your partner tear you down like you’re not God’s masterpiece, with insults and yelling that cut deep?



6. Do you feel more drained and anxious after time with your partner than after a marathon church service?



7. Is your partner more about knocking down your dreams than lifting you up like a prayer answered?



8. Does your partner make you feel like you're walking on eggshells, always worried about the next eruption?



9. Is your partner dismissive of your feelings, like they're nothing more than a passing breeze?



10. Does your partner create a constant sense of drama, where everything feels like a crisis to be managed?



11. Does your partner leave you feeling unworthy, like you’re not enough for them or anyone else?



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